Let me start by saying that I am not a writer. I am also not an expert. I don’t have studies or research to back up how pornography affects a marriage. I can only talk to you from experience. When my husband decided to write a book to help men conquer their problems I thought it was a good idea. However, when he started reading it to me I had to make him stop. It was too hard for me to take. I’m sure I’ll read it when he’s finished but being the wife to a porn addict is so painful. He read it to me three days ago and I still have a horribly uncomfortable muscle spasm in my back, neck and shoulders because it caused me so much stress. This is hard, but I want to encourage you with the little input I can.